Very familiar ang tanong niyang babaeng yan.. At very familiar ang lecture ng lalaking to. Mwahahaha!
Hmm. Ok. Im just preparing myself for the greatest ass kicking comments na marereceive ko dito after i write this. *ayos.upo, tingin.sa.monitor, paputok.ng.buto.sa.fingers, lagay.sa.keyboard.fingers* and here it goes..
Habang nanonood ako ng FRIENDS sa Pc kanina, bigla kong binuzz ang isa sa mga everyday kachikahan ko ng kung ano anong bagay. I told her na ako, i add women randomly sa friendster if i find them VERY interesting. Pero once na na-add ko na, nababadtrip ako dahil anaknamputek. IN A RELATIONSHIP na sila. DAMN IT. so anyways.. sya naman yung nagtanong sakin.
"(7/18/2008 12:47:50 PM): how come, may ibang babae na di naman ganon kaganda, may mga boyprend. e hindi naman sa kafeelingan, mas maayos naman kame sa kanila. get mo"
At dahil sa katanungan na yan, bigla na lang may pumasok na ideya sa utak ko para isulat ito. Halina't samahan nyo ako sa pagkilatis sa mga Beautiful People, at kaming mga Normal People... lets start with..
Beautiful People
Sila yung mga magaganda at gwapo na nakikita nyo sa lansangan. sa tv. sa mall. at sa internet. Sila yung may mga Poseurs sa internet. Sila yung may WHOA! potential. Sila yung cream of the crop society ngayon. Sila ang ating iniidolo, sa pananamit, sa pangangatawan, at sa kung ano ano pang bagay na makikita natin sa kanila. Sila ang STARS. Highlight of the Night. Talk of the Town. Center of Attraction. HOT SEAT. Beautiful People. Ang sarap ng feeling na tinitignan ka ng mataas ng mga tao. How i wish na maging one of them. Pero minsan, meron ding downside ang mga to wen it comes to.. LURVELIFE. Especially.. GIRLS.
Wag na kayo magreklamo na bakit kung sino pa yung mga katamtaman ang ganda at mga panget eh may mga boyfriend. Alam naman natin ang sagot dyan eh. MAGANDA KA KASI. Tumingin ka sa salamin. MAGANDA KA. So ngayon, Ang mga lalake, naiintimidate sa itsura mo. Tsaka, once your beautiful, everyone knows.. na mataas ang standards mo when it comes to boys. DUH? As if naman pipili ka ng panget dba. Matitiis mo ba mukha nun na ipamukha sa crowd na "Hey, this is mah boy. ain't he lovely?" I THINK NOT??! Buti sana kung yung panget na yun eh Mapera at Sikat. Ok lang.
Tapos habang sa conversation namin.. may pinost sya na ganito..
"(7/18/2008 12:54:53 PM): alam mo, kahit mga kanto boy walang nagkakagusto saken!"
DUH?? Alam mo ang mga nasa isip lang ng kanto boys pag nakakakita ng mga Beautiful People ay.. "Pre.. tangina sarap nito sibakin o. AMPUTE!" Maganda ka sa paningin ng mga Kanto Boys. at maganda ka ding Sibakin. Para sa kanila, hindi ka naman GF POTENTIAL eh. Isa kang KAMA POTENTIAL. Lets face it Beautiful Ones. Nababagay lang kayo sa mga Gwapo. Your kind ika nga. Tsaka kasi, kayong mga magaganda, minsan ang tinitignan nyo lang naman ay ang Pisikal na Kaanyuan ng isang lalake eh. Nalalason kayo ng kanilang mga Itsura. Madalang lang sa inyo ang may mga "MAHAL." Hindi yung mahal lang. Kundi yung "MAHAL" talaga. Bless those rare beautiful people.
Beautiful ka nga. Malas ka naman.
Beautiful Men. Syempre kasi nga gwapo, They can have all the girls that they want. Dinadaan kasi sa Kagwapuhan. Kahit naman hindi kagandahan basta mahubog ang katawan, papatulan nyan. Basta maka-score lang.
Normal People
Eto KAMI. KAMI to. Kami yung kalat na kalat sa society. as in para kaming mga basura. Kung san san mo kami makikita. Kami yung mga extra sa tv. Kami yung mga sidekicks. Kami yung mga last resort people na pinupuntahan ng mga "beautiful people" when they need help or comfort. Kami yung Average Joe's and Jane's. and Lastly, We are the ones who's building the Beautiful People's reputation. Kasi nga, iniidolo namin sila. AT UBER LASTLY, Kami ang yung ika nga ng kanta ni Kanye West, wer living the GOOD LIFE. Good Life din naman yung mga Beauties eh. Pero mas MUCH MORE "GOODERER" yung LIFE namin. Hindi namin pinoproblema ang itsura namin. Well some talaga kelangan pero mostly kami, NADA! :)
Ang kagandahan saming mga Normal People when it comes to our LURVELIVES.. is that, Hindi kami mapili sa itsura. Hindi mataas ang standards namin. Kasi ang pinapatakbo namin wen it comes to lurve.. ay ang puso namin with a little utak. Kami yung nababansagang Martyr sa Relationship. Kami'y mapag alaga. Kami'y malambing. In short. MARUNONG KAMING MAGMAHAL KESA SA INYO. Masakit, pero worthit naman. Kasi nagmahal kami ng totoo. Ganyan kaming mga Normal People.
at bago matapos ito, may nakakatawa lang na part sa aming usapan ng aking kaibigan...
(7/18/2008 1:43:12 PM): kunwari LALAKENG ******?
(7/18/2008 1:43:13 PM): ganon?
me (7/18/2008 1:43:19 PM): so knug lalakeng ****** ka, di ka maganda. gwapo ka.
me (7/18/2008 1:43:22 PM): AS IN GWAPO.
(7/18/2008 1:43:25 PM): tapos nakakita ako ng maganda at cute na sinasabi mo, dun ako sa maganda na sinasabi mong mahirap abutin
(7/18/2008 1:43:30 PM): challenge nga yun e
me (7/18/2008 1:43:45 PM): gwapo ka kasi eh
me (7/18/2008 1:43:48 PM): kaya go for the gold ka
(7/18/2008 1:44:27 PM): HINDI KO TALAGA MA-GET!!!
(7/18/2008 1:44:32 PM): bobo ba talaga ako o slow lang
(7/18/2008 1:44:34 PM): asar e
me (7/18/2008 1:44:40 PM): maganda ka kasi.
me (7/18/2008 1:44:43 PM): kaya di mo magets
me (7/18/2008 1:44:44 PM): :))
me (7/18/2008 1:44:45 PM): =))
(7/18/2008 1:44:49 PM): ULULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!
me (7/18/2008 1:44:51 PM): HHAHAHA
me (7/18/2008 1:44:53 PM): NAGETS MO O
me (7/18/2008 1:44:53 PM): TAMO
Ikaw Friend. tanungin kita. Which one are you?
Let the bashing begin. :)
___________________
Ang masasabi ko lang? AMPUTS. Hahaha
Go to the video shops, I'll see one. Go to the shopping centre, I'll see another. Go to parties, no doubt in seeing lots! Go to my work, I bet I'll see half of them. Go to the park, I'm quite surprised to see one. Damn it! ____ 3 more months and I'm gonna move! Haha
*JC, makikiuso ako sa'yo. Peste. Hahaha!
 | pressure | Jul 14, '08 11:18 AM
for everyone |
naiinis akong mabuhay ngayon. parang lagi akong stressed, pressured at tinatraydor. puta. school holidays ngayon. wala akong pera. ayokong magtrabaho. oo na ako na ang mali. gusto ko lumipat ng trabaho pero kasi di ko kaya i-handle ang pressure ng trabaho, pressure ng school, pressure ng teeeet, at pressure ng kinaiinisan ko.
[okaaaay. napapa-english na naman ako. hahaha]
1st week of school holidays; umalis ako. pumunta sa perth kasama yung mga taong di ko kasama sa school. punyeta nainis ako dun sa camp na yun e. sobrang lamig, sobrang talino pa nung iba tapos sobrang ewan kasi bakit ba di ko sinukat sa fitting room yung dalawang blouse na binili ko? inis sobra. di bale, i-regalo ko na lang yun sa barkada ko. HAHAHAHAHA! tapos yung binili ko naman skinny jeans. namaaaaan, bakit ba size 9 kinuha ko? e kasi feeling ko lagi akong tataba. hahaha. kaya kahit 8 ako, 9 pa rin kinuha ko kaya eto every 10 minutes kailangan kong i-adjust ang pantalon. NAMAAAAAN. *sheena, alam mo yung tinatawag na BELT? eh ayoko hirap din nun 2 lang belts ko, ang baduy nung isang design. haha*
2nd week of school holidays; ang boring. gusto kong magtrabaho kaso -- ang daming excuses. HAHAHA! kasi this week dancing practice kami from tuesday to thursday SO di naman talaga ako makaka-trabaho. kaso wala na akong datung kasi nga talagang wala na! humingi na lang ako kina mama & papa ng shopping money ko last week. ewan ko pero di talaga ako sanay humingi ng pera sa kanila. ewan ko kung bakit; kung anong nangyari sakin. hahaha! tapos sabi ko di ako kakain kasi nga travel makes you put on weight eh from the last 3 weeks lagi kaming nasa kung saang lupalop pumupunta ---ayan tuloy :(
CURRENTLY: *kakatapos ko lang gumawa ng weekly routine ko sa STUDY. namaaaaaaaan. in 10 weeks kasi, finals na namin. dun made-determine kung makaka-university ako o ewan ko kung ano ang gagawin ko sa buhay ko. hahaha! parang gusto nila kaming gaguhin kakaaral. as in kung papasok ka sa kwarto ko, puro schedule at kung anong diagram ang makikita mo. 1. menstrual cycle, 2. ears and function of its parts 3. homeostasis 4. math formula 5. map of australia 6. urban morphology terminology 7. map of western australia 8. how to make an essay 9. dairying map 10. ano ang naggawa ng technology sa dairying
kung anu-anong sticky notes ng kung kelan ang due date ng kung ano meaning ng mga BIG WORDS na pwedeng gamitin sa essays picture ng mga barkada ko dito :) [yung knightmares photo nasa loob ng closet ko :))] at isang 4x6 picture ni EVA LONGORIA.  *bumili na ko ng sarili kong libro ng SKINNY BITCH kasi nalilimutan ko kung bakit sugar is bad. haha at kung bakit dapat hindi ako uminom ng soft drinks. punyeta kasi e. hahahaha *ito pa!!!! kasi sa nerd camp sabi nugn mga speakers e mabuti raw yung Mozart or Beethoven musis [yung mga ganung type] sa pag-aral kasi daw ----- yung heart daw natin nakikisabay sa beat ng music kaya kung fast tempo ang beat ng pinakikinggan e di talaga makakapag-aral. KAYA AYUN, dahil tryhard ako mag-aral ---- loaded ng kung sinong musician na marunong mag-violin & piano ang iPod ko. shyet. HAHAHAHAHAHA
Angel's Heart  You fall in love quickly and easily.You give so much in a relationship, and you don't expect much in return. You love always seeing your lover and you just love them as they are.You have a huge desire to whomever you love and you stay in love forever
charing! :D
Dad forwards all of these emails and this one is worth reading. Haha! :))
Ang galing ng logic, amazed ako. Hahaha :))
No one falls in love by choice, it is by CHANCE. No one stays in love by chance, it is by WORK. And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by CHOICE.
CALLING EVERYONE TO GIVE ME THE BEST TACTIC FOR A FUCKING SWEET REVENGE!
i can't bear the thought of her and me sitting together every fcking morning this week. as geography's our first subject and the country week mob are not in town, the class is left with erm 6 students. fck. and i really can't stand her, like ugh, she's the girl i've been having problems with and she's too negative! plus, we're too different. she likes black too much and i love colors. she likes punk/goth/emo music -- the hell? and i dunno i just don't like the way she thinks and acts. thus i'm thinking of missing school for the whole week cos its like the last week of school this term anyway...
hmm.
*how you always say "sowi" right after you knew i hated hearing it. *it when you tease me a lot and i pretend to be pissed because you look so cute saying "I'M SORRY" properly.
*how you brag about me to your cousins and your friends
*it when they tell me you talk about me too much in front of them
*how you can make me laugh and smile without even doing or saying anything
*the fact that the thought of you makes me smile just like NOW
*that i hated you the first time we met
*how your ex stares at me
*how you tried to tell the story of Mama Bear, Papa Bear and Baby Bear and stopped the story when they cooked the porridge cos you don't know what's next
*how you forget everything except october 10 *how we say "hello" then pause for a while... then burst into laughing *calling you my "shawtey" *you calling me your "nigga" *it when you say "you're so blonde!" cos you're the only one who has the nuts to say that *it when i realized that blonde is lowgets/slow/LG *it when you say the story on how you first saw me. fcking cheesy. *6pm and 10pm *the fact that you don't get into fights *it when you try to sing the "filipino song"--- you just hum it. *it when you go into kmart and look for me *looking at your old photos and saying you look way cuter before -- then say "i'm joking i'm joking! take a joke will you!" *the fact that you're the opposite of every thing on my 'list' *how stupid you are not to wear slippers even though you stepped on like 10 prickles! *how you obey me not to drink too much :) *the feel of your hand *how you laugh--makes me laugh too *how i feel that you can be a bestfriend too *it when you said: "God, you make me weak." with the sweetest smile ever
*how i wanna put HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA at the end of every line above.
chorva lang :)
"The Bottom Line You don't have flexibility to switch up a relationship. It's 'yes' or 'no.' In Detail In a relationship, it's time to take a step back and look at potential problems that could develop if you get too close to a certain someone. Personal stories about your weekend need to have boundaries, and it's up to you to set them. You really don't have the flexibility to change up the terms of your relationship whenever you want. Either you are friends as well as coworkers, or you're strictly business. They might enjoy the grey areas, but it's not good for you. "
seriously? *deep shit*
| guilt. | Jun 23, '08 7:00 AM
for everyone |
...
*parang uso mga ganitong blog no? :))
Yung tipong gusto ka niya pero may iba kang nasa isipan. Yung tipong sweet siya sayo pero iniisip mo yung iba na alam mong di ka ganyang tratuhin. Yung tipong gusto mo siyang mahalin na kaso kahit anong pilit e wala talaga. Yung tipong gusto mo mag-workout sainyong dalawa pero alam mong iisa lang ang nagmamahal. Yung tipong ginagawa mo lahat para di niya mapansin na iba ang ginugusto mo kasi ayaw mo siyang masaktan. Yung gusto mong sabihin yung totoo kasi naniniwala kang karapatan ng LAHAT na malaman ang katotohanan pero alam mong ikaw ang talo -kaya nagpakaduwag ka na lang at nanahimik.
Yung tipong akala mo siya na kasi maganda ang trato niya sayo -- pero hanggang dun lang ata. Yung tipong lagi mo siyang maaasahan pero ikaw tong hindi maintindihan at iba pa rin ang hinahanap.
Yung tipong muka na siyang tanga sa pagaalala pero yun pala ayaw mo lang mag-reply sa kanya hanggang sa nag-send siya ng load para sa'yo.
Yung tipong gusto mong itigil lahat pero parang nakokonsenysa ka at natatakot sa kawalan.
Yung tipong ikaw na nga ang nahihirapan - pero alam mong mas mahihirapan ka kung tatapusin lahat kaya sa tingin mo dapat ipagpatuloy.
Yung tipong ikaw ang may kasalanan dahil sinadya mong magalit siya sa'yo pero siya pa rin ang nagmamakaawa.
Yung tipong naiinis ka sa sarili mo kasi alam mong kahit anong iwas ang gawin mo -- may masasaktan.
Yung tipong kahit ga'no ka niya kaganda i-trato --- hinahanap mo yung isnag taong halos magmakaawa ka sa atensyon.
Yung tipong sinabihan ka nga I love you pero THANK YOU lang ang maigaganti mo.
ALAM MO YUNG MAHIRAP?
yung alam mo ang solusyon --- pero ayaw mong sundin...
kaya marami kang dahilan.
**copied from darla's site [edited some bits though]
| theory. | Jun 19, '08 10:30 AM
for everyone |
why is it that everytime you think your life's at peace ---- it begins breaking into huge crumblings of problems again?  
| public | Jun 16, '08 5:31 AM
for everyone |
saya ko ngayon:) kaya magtatagalog ako. hahaha
ganito kasi parang yung problema ko sa barkada tapos na, tapos okay kami ng pamilya ko as in ewan parang ang saya kasi di na kami nag-aaway. e kasi ganito yun:
isa ako sa napili mag-represent ng school. o diba diba? be proud of meee! hahaha! kaya andun ako sa japanese resto saturday night, ni-meet namin yung students from a different school. tapos nakatabi ko si tim [mareng tim? haha] ANYWAY. hahaha basta kumbaga top 12 sa batch namin yung napili para pumunta sa city, may plane ride yan kaya saya ko ulit. hahaha and the best part?
LIBRE LAHAT! hahahaha saya pala mag-feeling matalino! hahaha as in accommodation, plane rides, transportation & food -- sagot ng government. mwahahaha! shopping money na lang yung akin, syempre hihingi ako kina mama kasi matalino ako. hahahaha kaya mabait sakin sina papa ngayon kasi ayun na nga, syempre proud yun. sarap pala sa feeling. hahaha
1 week akong wala sa bahay. :( parang mami-miss ko din. tsk3.
ito pa, tanda niyo yung dancing ko? sa august na yung competition, sa city ulit. sponsored kami kaya okay lang. pero ito ang big news: mate-TV akooo! mwahahahaha! saya ko.
hahaha
kaso namomroblema ako baka tumawa ako ng tumawa kasi ako yung ano ba yun, guest speaker? anak ng kamote. hahaha
pero sa lahat nang yan, ito ang pinaka-gusto ko sa mga nangyayari: palagi akong nililibre ni mama. :))
PS: ay ito nga pala sinabi ng mga magulang ko.
ako: ma, grabe nagtampo skain si ivana kasi kayo di nyo ko pinayagan mag-attend ng birthday celebration niya.
mama: o diba okay nga kasi tingnan mo ngayong di ka na umaalis ng bahay at di ka na nagpa-party -- ayan ang ganda ng academics mo.
BWAHAHAHAHAHA! no comment na lang po. :)
Pseudo-relationships.
Pseudo-boyfriends.
Pseudo-girlfriends.
Flings.
Almost like a relationship, but not quite.
It is a phase where the persons involved are more than friends, but not quite lovers.
Puwedeng may verbal agreement, puwedeng wala.
One or both of you may have admitted your feelings,possible ding hindi.
You just let your gestures do the talking for you.
Walang pormal na ligawan na nangyari.
Hindi kayo mag-dyowa.
Pero sa kilos niyo, sa mga sinasabi niyo, parang kayo, pero hindi.
This kind of "relationship" can happen at different stages for different reasons.
It can happen after a break-up.
You still love each other, and you want to be with each other but you broke up for a reason.
And for reasons that you alone know, ayaw niyo na muna magkabalikan.
It can also happen before a relationship, iyong pareho kayong nakikiramdam.
Possible din na ayaw niyo munang mag-seryoso kaya kunwa-kunwarian lang muna.
Testing lang. (tama ba un?!)
Puwede ring hindi puwedeng maging kayo kasi isa sa inyo may ka-relasyon na.
Kaya habang hindi pa siya nakikipag-break doon sa boy/girl (sabi niya makikipag-break siya soon pero di naman niya ginagawa), wala muna kayong relasyon para nga naman hindi siya nangangaliwa kasi "hindi naman kayo."
This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time, can be fun.
Lalo na kung naghahanap ka lang naman ng "KALARO."
Pero huwag ka lang mag-e-expect na may patutunguhan kayo kse wala talagang kasiguraduhan.
So bakit ang daming nagse-settle sa ganitong set up ganoong hindi naman sigurado kung may patutunguhan?
iba't ibang dahilan. Puwedeng for fun lang. Puwedeng "buti na iyan kesa wala" or puwede na iyang "pantawid-gutom." Meaning, habang wala pa iyong the real thing, doon muna sa kunwa-kunwarian. For those who are not in a serious relationship, they would think that pseudo-relationship is better than no relationship at all. It would be fun, if all you're after is that "kilig" feeling. But then I learned that although it was only a pseudo-relationship, the emotions were real. And usually, in this kind of set up, merong malulugi..
"ung nainlove sa taong taken na.." Una, you can't ask him/her to commit. Since it's not really a relationship, you can't demand commitment from your partner. Ano ba kayo? You will always be uncertain about your role in his/her life. You can't expect him/her to be always there with you. And if you feel jealous of the other boys/girls, you just have to keep it to yourself. Ano ka ba niya para magselos? Pangalawa, what if you fall deeply in love with him/her? You can't be sure if he/she feels the same way. Baka nag-a-assume ka lang na mahal ka rin niya. Even if you are dying to tell him/her you love him/her, you can't. Because you're not sure if he/she will like it. Baka mapahiya ka lang. This stage will always make you wonder where you are in the relationship. Or if there is a relationship at all. Pangatlo, what if you become attached too much? What if you have invested all your emotions and this man/woman hasn't? What if you remain faithful to him/her, not entertaining other guys/gals, only to find out that he/she is seeing other girls/boys? Isa pang downside ng pseudo-relationships, it is fleeting.
When a disagreement sets in, or when one of you gets cold, then that would be the end of it. Unlike in a serious relationship, hindi mo alam kung saan ka lulugar sa isang pseudo relationship. Wala kang pinanghahawakan. Kasi sa pseudo-relationship, there is no "us."
Meron lang "you and me."
disclaimer: nadenggoy ko lang to sa onlinebuddy kong si jofer na nakibasa din lang dito: MATATAMAAN KA SA BLOG NA TO.
Sintomas ng PINOY LOVE:
1. As if walang pakialam pero deep inside, worried na¦ miss na miss na.
2. Pag nag-text, “So what?” daw. Pero later, magre-reply rin naman.
3. Pa-erase-erase pa ng # kunwari pero¦ hello¦ memoryado naman ˜yung #.
4. Kapag hindi tine-text ng bf/gf niya, kunwari, na-wrong send para magpapansin.
5. Ayaw mag-text pero nagtatanong sa barkada ng bf/gf niya kung kumusta na.
6. Haaayy!!! LOVE nga naman sa Pilipinas, ohâ!! pang-adik!
***
Paano mo malalaman kung LOVE mo ang isang tao?
Kapag hindi nag-text nang isang araw, nami-miss mo o nagwo-worry ka.
Kapag may iba siyang katext, nagseselos ka.
Habang katext mo, biglang nagpaalam na matutulog na maiinis ka.
Tuwing aalis siya, inaalam mo kung saan siya pupunta.
Curious ka sa family niya.
Kapag dumampi ang balat/kamay niya sa yo, iba ang feeling mo.
Pagtunog ng cellphone mo, pangalan niya ang ine-expect mong lumitaw.
Bago ka matulog, siya ang iniisip mo.
Paggising mo, siya pa rin ang una mong maiisip.
Iniisip mo siya habang binabasa mo ito right now¦
***
Symptoms of a CERTIFIED SINGLE:
Mahilig kumain.
Panalo ang social life. Alam lahat ng gimikan at mall sale.
Hayok sa tulog.
Gadget-addict.
Sa cellphone, group message nang group message ng quotes.
Ngumingiti kahit nag-iisa.
Tumataba.
Porma to the max.
Mukhang happy kahit hindi naman talaga.
***
Symptoms of CERTIFIED TAKEN:
Walang pera.
Mukhang ngarag at laspag.
Kuripot.
Blooming, kasi, kailangan para hindi iwan.
Walang social life kundi dyowa niya.
Boring kausap.
***
TIRED IN EVERYDAY DOING? Here are five tips for something new[/u]
1. Sikmuraan ang unang taong makasalubong at humingi ng sorry.
2. Uminom ng pampatulog at labanan ito. Mag-exercise.
3.Tibagin ang bahay at buuing muli.
4. Himatayin kunwari sa daan. Tiyaking may tao.
5.Tahiin ang puwet at magpatingin sa doktor.
***
Mga PAMATAY na HIRIT
“Kumain ka ba ng asukal? Ang tamis kasi ng ngiti mo!”
“May lahi ka bang keyboard? Type kasi kita!”
“Ipapupulis kita! Ninakaw mo kasi ang puso ko!”
“Are you a dictionary? Kasi, you add meaning to my life.”
“Meron ka bang lisensya? Kasi, you drive me crazy.”
“I lost my number. Can I have yours?”
“Angel ba ang name mo? Kasi, you look like one.”
“I forgot your name. Can I call you mine?”
PAMATAY na REPLY
“Excuse me, kumain ka ba ng mais? Ang corny mo kasi!”
nagising ako ngayong araw mga 6.30 - malamang kasi ganyan ang alarm ko. *peaked out my bedside window* IT'S RAINING!  winter kaya ngayon, tapos ulan? sheeesh. they don't suit my mood. so i decided to just sleep since my bed is so inviting being so cosy and warm. ___ ay ewan nawala ako sa mood mag-blog basta ang gulo-gulo-gulo ng buhay ko ngayon. ibalik nyo na'ko sa pinas!!!!
"Libra take responsibility for a mistake today. Blaming someone else will only make you look bad."
He's Just Not That Into You
“Whoever said there were plenty of fish in the sea was lying. Sometimes, there’s only one fish.” - Ally Mc Beal
I realized that if a guy wants to be with you, he will let you know. You won’t have to send him a text message by mistake or “suddenly”. Show up at his fave gimmick place or plan a “chance” encounter. If he was really into you, he’d take every possible chance to see you. Moral of the story? Stop analyzing or agonizing over his so-called moves. If he’s not asking you out, chances are, he doesn’t see you as girlfriend material.
Normally, guys would choose to walk on a tightrope than tell you they don’t like you. But this is what you have to do. Yes, you may give yourself time to mope but do not EVER think that something is wrong with you. When a guy you’ve spent an awful time a lot of time flirting or bonding with suddenly disappears, all your insecurities seem magnified. Your hips get bigger, your zits multiply or your hair become frizzier. Don’t let it get you. No, you don’t have to change anything. You get along well with guys and friendship is never a bad thing. It’s just that you’re not his type. The truth is always hard to swallow. Don’t feel bad. You are wonderful in your own way. Move on and find the guy who will see that even on your I-feel-ugly days.
Okay, I know what you’re thinking. What if he’s just busy? Or what if he’s just not ready for a relationship? Or he’s just torpe? Stop making excuses. Stop thinking of all kinds of reasons why he hasn’t called, texted or asked you out. One of my guy friends once told me, if he really liked you, he should have done something by now. He would have contacted you even if he was “busy.” And even if he’s “chicken,” he would get up the guts to court you if he was really crushing hard. Don’t give meaning to every little thing he does. But if you get confused and are not sure whether or not there is something going on, talk to your other, more trusted guy friends. Your girl friends will more often than not tell you what you want to hear or tell you “do whatever makes you happy.” Your guy friends will tell you the truth. The honest to goodness truth. Sometimes, that is all you need to hear to open your eyes to what is really happening.
I’ve always been the unbelievably optimistic girl. I secretly wished that this guy I like would finally call or ask me out. Bring me flowers and all that mushy stuff. Maybe I should give him some time. Whatever. THE ONLY THING I SHOULD BE DOING IS TO STOP WASTING MY TIME ON HIM. Really, spend more time with friends. He may not be that into you, but that doesn’t mean that you’re not good enough to become someone else’s girlfriend. Just think about it, if you compute the time you waste waiting by the phone or daydreaming about the guy you’re crushing on, how many hours would you have spent? Stay hopeful, but move on. If he’ll really be into you, then that time will come. But don’t put your life on hold and wait for it.
Yes, it’s hard. Even I haven’t gotten over this guy I like. But we have to start somewhere. You will never move on if you don’t face the fact that Mr. Right isn’t your Mr. Right. And please, don’t think that it’s the end of the world or you’re stuck there. Instead of agonizing that you’re not his type, be assured that someone else out there Will think you’re fabulous-and that’s what you deserve.
Source: Janis Ian C. Gopez’s article: “Always the Best friend”
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